Originally Posted by
Trying2flyalone 
I've wrangled with this for years now and I'm afraid that if I do I will have given up on someone who for all intensive purposes is not a "bad" person.
~ Crying and Tyring2Fly in Monterey.....
I'm new here, too... though on the other side of the equation, in that I'm a husband trying to get sober. I'm so very far from an expert, which is why I'm here, but I know enough to tell you this isn't your fault no matter what you ultimately choose to do. I wish you much luck and hope the people on the forum that's been recommended to you can help. Me, I'm working on deserving my wife and children. Good luck. *hugs*