Hello, after mentioning that I want us to go to counseling, he said I was the one that needed counseling. Well that spoke volumes to me. I will find me a meeting to attend for partners of alcoholics. Its like he wants me not to want him not to drink. Like this is sooo wrong, Well having a healthy relationship is very important to me. We will have to talk because he made a statement of me needing a man that doesn't drink. what is so wrong about wanting a healthy relationship?????