I just know that he use to be a user and its like when he drinks, He tries to get drunk sooo fast and to me its like he is wanting that same high. Im not sure about this at all and I really don't want to judge him. He pays his bills, he keeps his paychecks, he hasn't given me reason to suspect he is using, I just have his FEAR!!! We split up for two months and I sometime wonder if he told me he wasn't gonna drink anymore to get me back. dumb question but I want to believe he has seen that he does do better when we are together. (Co dependent Moment, huh) I read a quote, it was really nice, The hardest thing and the right then are the same