I agree not getting married is a smart move.
The thing is there is no quick fix to your problem. So you know. He wont wake up tomorrow and be sober.
Being on these forums is the first step to making change either for yourself or the relationship in whole
Second set boundaries and there is a wrong and a right way to do so.
Third familiarize yourself with alcoholism. If you read something about it and think it wont happen or he isnt that bad etc stop yourself....cuz he is and it will.
Fourth dont enable . If he falls asleep on the porch and has to go to work
Leave him alone let him wake up on the porch having missed work
And fifth take care of yourself. You are just as much important as he is. Dont forget ut!
Furthermore welcome to sr
