Hello and welcome to SR. You sound like a wonderfully supportive husband and your wife will appreciate all you are trying to do for her.
You may want to repost your intro in that Friends and family section. I'll come back if I can copy and paste a link in for you.
S x
Edit here you go and I've learnt something new!
Friends and Family of Alcoholics - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information