Impurrfect-- I agree with you 100% that he is only going to rehab bc he got arrested. I'm sure if he didnt get caught he would still be using behind my back and lying. He was never planning to tell me about this I'm sure. he wanted to impress the judge...as he said. Yes I'm sure there was a part if him tired of that life. But seems he was forced into recovery doesn't seem like he "chose" it. Hopefully, he can stay healthy and clean with the tools he learns from rehab/therapy .
thanks for everyone's comments, def helping me out. it's been hard like I said, I'm new to this all. First person I know that has addiction issues.