4MyBoys,
I for one call Bulls$#@!!!!!!
This is unbelievable and I think it is really just a way for him to continue his abuse of you. And his lawyer is going right along with it. It's ridiculously childish. I am angry about it.
But I understand the concept of protecting your kids over being "right."
Yes. That.
Part of my divorce agreement was similar. His attorney came back and demanded I make the same concessions I had requested he make. And I was furious. I didn't drink. I didn't drive drunk. I hadn't physically threatened him. I hadn't kicked in his front door.
And my attorney gave me the same advice Pohsfriend did: Just go with it, and tell them "since I have no problems in these areas, it is no sacrifice for me to agree to these terms; my only concern is safety."
So question -- what will happen if he fails one of these tests?