Originally Posted by
4MyBoys 
I am just mad, that this somehow got turned around on me. I have been abused by this man for years, my kids have been hurt, it is bullsh!t.
Of course you are. Of COURSE you are! From an outsider's perspective, I don't interpret this as an accusation or personal attack as much as a legal gambit that is very likely common practice. It is sending a message that anything you ask of him probably will be asked of you. Since you have nothing to be ashamed of, it does not have to be of any consequence. And ultimately it will either make him look bad (and you look stellar) or make him comply, both of which are in your best interests.
All that being said, it makes my stomach crawl and I am seriously PO'd you are asked to do this. Deep breaths and big sighs. You are doing great.