I just contacted my attorney and told her that my kids safety was my biggest concern. So I was willing to do it just the same as my STBXAH. Every other weekend. Same as him. That, as the person never accused of having a drinking problem before today, (six months into this) I should not have to take it to work or be tested 26 days a month, when he will only be tested four days a month.
The hearing was supposed to be him trying to show the court he can do longer visits after having all visitation taken away for a month and then only suppervised for a couple months. He now has only a couple hours a week and never overnights. This hearing was to get him longer more meaningful visits. He is supposed to be proving himself to the court.
I am just mad, that this somehow got turned around on me. I have been abused by this man for years, my kids have been hurt, it is bullsh!t.