Originally Posted by
4MyBoys 
But, would you ask a domestic violance victim to do jail time along side with their perpetrator just to get some protection?
Absolutely not, I see your point. When I divorced M I had a pit bull on crack type of a lawyer. It was more effort to keep her reigned in than my STB ex wife and I'm not making that up. She wanted to file for this and motion for that.. it was exhausting not to mention expensive. Everything we asked for Ms lawyer asked for the exact same thing right back, no matter how ridiculous. It's a negotiations game billable at $350/hr. Sad to say, but it's a game.
M had been abusing prescription drugs for years and we asked for a transcript form the pharmacy, well they asked me for the same thing right back. We pulled M's perps as well and she had like 30 perps for ADs over 5 yrs and my transcript had like two perps for Antibiotics over the same period. Just stupid crap like that.