My XABF used to watch porn as well on my laptop. I became suspicious because when I would go to use it, my history would be completed deleted. Some days it was not and some days it was, meaning he was watching porn on those days. I did speak to him about it and I used to receive explanations about how he only watched it when I was away somewhere for awhile, etc, but obviously that was not true. It amazed me that when we found out he stole money from my parents, he spent the next week not doing anything but sitting at home and during that time, I changed the password on my laptop. I come home to find his ipad on the ground with a dying battery and porn on it. Yes, he got that desperate that he tried to view porn on his tiny ipad. It was pretty disgusting to me that with all that was going on, the money he owed my parents, the truth being uncovered, he still had the nerve to watch porn on top of not doing anything else but lay there and feel sorry for himself. It's the most pathetic thing I have ever seen--a "grown" man feeling sorry for himself that he stole money, laying in bed at 5pm, not having showered or brushed his teeth, and had watched porn. SAD.
Just typing this makes me so angry and yet makes me so glad I got away from that train wreck. And as the previous post indicates, just goes to show how self-centered alcoholics are. Their world goes completely unaffected despite the chaos around them.