hmm. I totally understand, when I developed Plantar fasciitis, axbf just seemed totally unsympathetic, like he couldn't understand why the apartment wasn't as clean because I was in pain. Did he offer to help me out more or give a foot massage, anything? No of course not. I found that he was also looking at transsexual porn on my computer and when I asked him about it, he said "Somebody on Facebook told me to look at that".
Blah blah blah, lies lies. So sorry you are going through this. Of course he doesn't care about you, he's totally self-absorbed.