oh man it seems with the body so goes the mind....
my ah too did something similiar....i found him asleep passed out holding a gun to his head today. its one of those days for us i guess and they get to vaguely remember, forget or drink it away like they always do. we however get to deal with the scars from their drinking and remember clearly.
Ive had many names thrown at me by him.....you name it he has said it and even though not true or even partially true statements made by him...they hurt none the less but remember he is a sick mean dog and they are words we could throw around at anyone if we wanted to. they dont pertain to who we are they just pertain to who he is and what he is allowing himself to be.
I have also been told i could die or go s*** a d**** ...yup very harsh but you know what? the cruelties will only stop when He realizes hes done with it OR when WE take our lives and happiness in our own hands.