I can't smell my own perfume.
Maybe what you smell is different than what others smell?
Work with your sponsor on this issue, that's what sponsors are for. Maybe really write it as a resentment on your 4th step list. Work the rest of those steps and get a new perspective....
Maybe take that man aside at your next meeting and thank him for his tact, care, and love for you. He did you a favor. We often don't hear what we like, but we do hear what we need to hear.
I wonder how many others were distracted? If that man with some time was distracted enough, I couldn't imagine what another person new to the meeting was going through......