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So, you still have the option of backing out anytime you want to.
It is your right, your HP will back you up on that
I have done well iin the past with making a plan.
ie.... I will go to Christmas Eve with my family , I will arrive at 5pm and leave by 9.
I think you get what it mean, so with family , for me, it's chuncks of time.
I will have breakfast with Mom on Tuesday, from 9 to 11. However that works for you.
You always have a choice, I just stopped caring what anyone else thought and took care of myself.
I hope this makes sense and it helps. Keep us posted. And be good to yourself.