Meg,
It's awesome to see you hit the 90 mark as well. I have been thinking about the holiday stuff too lately. I know that my next big test is going to be the holiday party at work next month. I'm actually thinking about not going altogether, but I'm going to discuss it with my sponsor at some point. But either way, I'm going to be visiting family again for Christmas, and that I can't avoid. My dad's side of the family drinks moderately for the most part and I will have to learn how to say no thanks and not make a big deal out of it. Meg, if I remember right, you're in AA as well. Talk to your sponsor about this and also call a few other alcoholics in your group about it. They can give you some good pointers about how to deal with all of the holiday drinking.