Lily -
I am in a Christan Coda group and we are doing a workbook called "Untangling Relationships, The Christian perspective of Codependency. (it is awesome too). I am learning how I distorted Bible scripture in attempts to justify and continue to save, fix, rescue and control.
Obsessive love is not Godly love. How would you describe your love for your BF?? Just something to think about.