Thanks Rose. Well, I have been deceiving him and the rest of my family for over a year now, after being sober 6 months. I felt really great about that accomplishment too. I was sleeping well, losing a little weight, feeling good, not questioning myself if anyone "noticed" or not.
I dont know if telling all is necessary for everyone or not. I think I need to be honest. I have been drinking a year now; he thinks it's only been a month or so. With that much time since my sobriety, the recovery may be more difficult as a result. My husband may think it is not as big a deal as it is if I dont tell him the truth.