You're right.. it probably wont happen (the poor yous and I'm sorrys). I've been sober for almost four years and I can think of only one time someone followed my "no thank you" with an additional question, and all it was was "really? never?" "No, never
". No one cares if you drink.. and if they do, that's just weird and unhealthy. Have a great thanksgiving!! There wont be any alcohol at mine, other than the one beer my husband will have, and the one beer my grandpa wont even finish.