To Paper Dolls, re: no reasons just excuses. I understand what you are saying. But for me at least, understanding reasons for doing things or why things happen still are very important. So in a way, I feel not that there are no excuses, only reasons For me at least, it is important to understand how I did what I did, why I did these things. BUT!!! BUT, no excuses for anything that is bad. But the reasons you got lost and were flying down the road in the dark with no lights and a bridge out...you should know how you got there, so you can avoid that road again!