Originally Posted by
dancingnow 
Sorry I know this is minor irritation compared to what others go through. I just don't want to be a person who feels the need to make snide comments and I find myself more and more feeling that way.
You know, every time someone here writes that, I am amazed. I really admire you for this.
You see, for me, I would never have noticed and certainly wouldn't have complained about this 'minor' irritation. I was too sick in codie-world to have ever noticed legitimate irritation, much less feel it, and certainly would never have complained about it.
You go, girl!
He was rude, you noticed how it made you feel and respected that feeling in yourself, and you are respecting your growing awareness that maybe this is not what you want in your life. This is good, healthy behavior on your part. Respect that irritation and take care of it anyway you want; don't be like me and wait until it turns into rage and bitterness that is post traumatic stress worthy.
Give yourself a kudo.