What are these things you struggle to do? Are you at home with children while he is out playing with a new mistress? If so, that would make anyone feel like they got the short end of the stick, like you have the responsibilty, and he gets to play.
Come here and tell us more whenever you need to. Don't exhaust your friends, you don't want to lose them because of it, so when you see them try to make sure that you also spend just as much time talking about their lives, and life in general.
But here you can obsess as much as you need to.
