Originally Posted by
Ju5tBr3ath3 
Thank you guys, finding this has made me feel less lonely in this.
I have put the wedding on hold, he has been doing good so far but its early. I've been reading things on here since its happened, trying to understand it and figure out what to do.
It is possible for things to turn out good again isn't it?
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As long as were on odds.....my estimate is that less than 10% would have the
centeredness and core values to put their wedding on hold.
The other 90% hope for the best,call for flank speed on the denial and
order more cotton to stuff in their ears----whilst telling members here (some
of whom have been at this for DECADES) ...
that they don't know what they are talking about..
Read,learn,process,understand.Something tells me that you are not going
to be one of the attrition statistics.Of course it is possible for things to turn
out good.Anyone (on SR or ANYWHERE ELSE) who claims to foresee future
events with certainty is nothing but a fool.
But with that being said---extraordinary caution is called for when the
subject is addiction.In few other areas of life does wishful thinking have the
potential to be so catastrophically costly.