Originally Posted by
Ju5tBr3ath3 
I'm afraid to talk about things with him because what if it makes him more down on himself that he starts back up again? I love him and what to work things out but when is it time to start doing that? It just feels like I'm waiting but for what I don't know.
It's not your fault that he uses. You don't have any control over his use. It doesn't matter what you say or what you don't say. I've been there where I'm all worried about the right amount to say. The addict finds recovery when they want it and when they do the work to become clean.