Originally Posted by
dandylion 
LIZ, have you thought of any ways to protect yourself financially. If he is willing to bleed down the household moneys for some scurulous reason----just asking him to be a little more careful is unlikely to produce positive results.
You need to protect yourself---he sure isn't going to!
dandylion
Well, the easiest way to protect myself is to file for legal separation. Not sure I want to take that route since I made a pact with our marriage therapist that I wouldn't file anything until we've done 90 days with counseling.
I have some money in my name only and a few accounts where I am the primary. I can always liquidate the stocks and move the cash to an account in my name only. I have a friend who's a financial advisor and I need to call him and then I need to call a lawyer. He's just been acting weirder and weirder, making me think that something is going on but I just can't put a finger on it yet.