The only person I have to answer to is myself and my higher power. When I was drinking I was a liar, cheat and thief. I hated what I saw in the mirror.
Today I still have a few problems but for the most part I like what I see. When people stop drinking the dynamics change. My sponsor says, "It is none of my business what other think of me."
I know when I am doing the right thing and as long as I am doing it other peoples drama is none of my concern. It is only when I am wrong that I have to take action and try to make the situation right.