4th and 5th step (Alanon)
So... I am pretty new to Alanon (my first meeting was on February 13!) and a little while ago I had started a step 4 but then a lady from the meeting I go to told me that I needed a sponsor to talk to to do a 4th.
I kind of looked for a sponsor, I was going to ask one lady but then saw her in what seemed to me a "things are unmanageable" state of mind and decided against it. As I hoped to connect with a sponsor I pretty much stopped working on step 4...
Now I think it is better for me to do a step 4 on my own than not do one at all, my understanding is that I can do another step 4 later and catch what I had not caught before.
What do you think?
Also, I got the name of a priest (or some kind of church man) and the name of a sister that are available for step 5. Since I don't have a sponsor I think that might be my best option in order to grow in this program though I would like to have a sponsor in the future.
Any advice on that would be appreciated.