I know your frustration!!! Hang in there! I really wish my STBXAH would just disappear for about a year, and really deal with his own garbage. After jerking me and the kids around for two weeks unnecessarily, he managed to make it out here this past weekend and rented a car. Im so sick of his entitled attitude when I am doing ALL the parenting of three kids. I think you are doing the best you can in a ridiculous situation with someone who was supposed to be the other adult in your childs life.