Originally Posted by
Hollyanne 
A couple of years back, I had the pleasure of my father claiming that he was happy that he had not hurt any of his family. Sounded like he believed it too.
It was a good thing that I could hear, as I have a deaf ear from the not hurting any of his family!
This really resonates with me. My father's version of this was, "None of it ever happened. You're imagining it all."