lol, my instant thought reading your post was "Heck, at least she gets an answer...". I have written very heart felt notes to my AH and my response from him is always the sound of crickets. It hurts a lot but I think I'm getting off lucky if I think about it. If he was at all mean or blaming I would be crushed.
I'm so sorry you got that response & like you, I'm learning that reaching out is just salt in the wound & serves no purpose. Besides, I have already clearly communicated myself to him & I am not a broken record. Why keep torturing myself?!?
It makes me feel a little better knowing that his VERY concerned family who is 3000 miles away can't reach him either. I wish they could as someone needs to but it helps me to realize it's not me, it's him & his demon(s).