Wow, Elisabeth. Were you and I seperated at birth??? Hubby and I are selling our home and got an offer on it right away. When he wanted to counter, I was afraid of making the potential buyer mad! I told him I just wanted to make someone very happy by selling our home to them on their conditions. He looked at me bewildered and said, "What are we doing, running a charity here???" LOLZ! I totally get where you are coming from. Sooo frustrating!