Thanks dava. I'm considering these things. My counselor is helping me deal with this. She's helped me realize that I have to love myself before anything else so I can make decisions. She's heavily advocating al-anon to help me through this. I'm just confused and sad. I love my husband, and the things he does have really gotten to me, and I can't continue to let them get me the way they have. It's exhausting.
Thanks for the post!
Kelli~*