Lui and Cactuslady,
I would like to start by welcoming you to one of the greatest places I've come accross. The people here are so supportive of each other. We help each other through the rough times, and celebrate through the good. As far as worrying about someone saying they saw you at a meeting, they would be telling on themselves as well. For them to know that you were there, they have to be there. I wouldn't be too worried.
I would also like to mention that we have AA meetings right here. The times are posted in the forum. Stick around and get to know us. Tell us how we can help.
Sherry