Originally Posted by Aquiana
Wait, I do get it I realize as I puff away on a cigarette. I don't understand what's in both of our heads. I really wonder why this stuff is legal sometimes.
Amen. When I think I don't understand my ex-A all I have to do is look at the pack of cigarettes on my desk and... deep down in side, I do understand at least some of his thought process (or LACK of thought process). But cigarettes haven't interfered with our relationship, they don't alter my mood and we've never had a fight because of them, so there are some pretty big differences.... The addiction itself and the denial, however, are the same.