Lulu,
It seems to me like once a person lets them know in any sort of way that it's no contact, that they seem to ramp up contact. I'm not one to say a whole lot though, because STBXAH knows all my buttons and soon enough I answer him or call him. This time though it'll be easier, hopefully. Luckily he only sees the children once a month, so I can live the rest of the month in some sort of normalcy.
haha, drunklish! I might have to use that!