Originally Posted by
dandylion 
Dear LIZ, I was in tears when I read your description of the sting ray incident! (probably triggered by some of the cruel attitudes of my children's father while we were married).
I think that was abusive--if not actually criminal---considering that you were in a potentially life-threatening situation.
LIZ, did you think he was being abusive at the time? (I mean privately to yourself). Do you feel like it was abuse now? Because, people, sometimes, don't actually know that it IS abuse.
You have indicated that you will be consulting lawyers soon about your rights. I highly suggest that you mention this incident as well as other similar incidents across the length of your marriage. I am not a lawyer, but I feel like this might be very important.
dandylion
Thank you dandylion ~
to be discounted and treated as less than ~ not seen as worthy of basic care ~
for me, I found that to be abuse in my past relationship ~ but it took me a long time to recognize it ~