Been there done that got a XXX t-shirt to prove it. We are the ones who allow this kind of crap in our lives. We are the ones who believe they will change because they said so. We are the ones who constantly give of ourselves and allow them to keep taking. We are the ones who think that we have a future with these people. We are the ones who keep backing down.
So, we can walk away and never look back, we can join the codependency groups, or we can resolve ourselves to the future of lies, manipulation, constant kick to our self esteem until they decide to quit the addiction, us or life.
I am for the seeing the counselor living my life whether he wants to be in it or not. I can't live for him nor do I depend on him to make me happy.
Just my opinion and you know what they say about opinions.
