Hi MissShelle,
So happy to hear you have found yoru way to AVRT. It is such a good feeling when you realize there are options, and you are in control.
Im a family member; my husband is now almost 6 months clean from opiates. He entered a non-12 step rehab, and through that found a better way for him also. He could not get behind the premise of the 12 steps as they went against his character also. He does not have to surrender; he is in control.
He can get better; he does not have to wear a label forever. He inspires me everyday & Im so proud of him.
Welcome & so glad you are here.