He's still here!!!!
We had a "discussion" and he's adament that he's not in active addiction. I forgot to post that he continues to test positive for THC and his levels went down at first, then rose, and are now holding steady. :/
He says he'll leave when I tell him that I don't love him. He's trying to manipulate me and its making me mad.
I do believe he is in active addiction. I won't live with an active addict. I don't have to tell him anything. I guess I'll wait until I get paid and then file for divorce. Maybe this is all working out for the best anyway.