Kindeyes, welcome back!
I am so glad you got your cup filled with your spiritual retreat. It's never selfish to go tank up with spiritual juju! I get it every Sunday morning in church.
Your posts mean so much to me. And, I admire you for standing strong when your son begs to come live with you and your husband. That takes tremendous strength and clear insights.
I may have to come over the bridge and come to your Nar-Anon meeting there!
A mini Home Depot shopping spree
with compassion,
Peaceandgrace