Originally Posted by
Chickadees 
Hi All...
After the move, that's when something changed for me...Yikes! I started to care more about him and what I now recognize (thanks to you all) as codie behaviour started kicking in. I was and still am feeling a little out of sorts and missing my neighbourhood. I am feeling vulnerable and a little lonely for the first time in a long long time. I started to miss his company in a way I never did before. I started to accept behaviour that I wouldn't have before I moved. I started to get caught up in his drama. Short story...I got hooked on an addict.
good roads,
Chick:You_Rock
It's right there=--the bolded part.
The heartache from being lonely is nothing compared to the heartache you will experience if your life becomes too entwined with an active A.
The price you will have to pay--you have already started accepting behavior you wouldn't have before, you have said it yourself. Codies lose not only respect for the A's, codies lose respect for themselves.
This is a slippery slope--sure you don't want to get yourself out while you still can?