For me, I could not love myself until I stopped allowing the hurts and the chaos continue. My life was upsidedown, i got an apology, he was drunk, and 10 minutes after I got the apology, he called me an effing b and a c
Told me he couldn't tell me the reason he was apologizing unless I could accept it. Huh????
Apology with conditions. He was probably dating someone else, it didn't work out, so he had to confess to clear his guilty mind. Have another shot, in the meantime I'll just sit here and hate myself.
Blech!!!!