thanks to all for your responses......just to clairify...he doesn't have a license (becasue of his drinking) so has no transportation, and it was fun to start playing the game but in the end it was just something for him to do and DRINK! I know this now !
I have to tighten my boundries and for the most part things don';t bother me much when I remind myself to take care of myself and that I can't control it .....but some days my co-dependancy gets the best of me!!