When to NOT "run for your life?"
i am so glad i found this site because everyone always gives me a straight answer, no BS. when i first came here, i hated to hear the hard truth...but now i depend on it.
my husband as you all know...has cheated on me, did coke in the mancave behind my back, we had a DV incident...and oh yeah...he has abandoned me and the baby....havent heard a peep out of him in 3 weeks.
so, i put his ass out of this house...and am getting on with my life.
i keep reading on these boards about how all these husbands/wives, etc are trying so hard to "work things out" with the non-addicted partner. and everytime, i read the responses from SR saying..."run for the hills!!!" i am usually saying the same thing because of all my drama.
my question is....when do we NOT say that? when do you stay and try to do your part to save the relationship?
or, is the hard truth that you should always bail when you find out your significant other is an addict?