They will tell you whatever you want to hear and you will believe whatever you want to believe. We already responded to this on the other forum. Are you hoping to get different answers here? Addicts lie and will do whatever they think will keep you involved in their chaos.
He is 35 years old, still works part time at Costco, no car (even though he is getting close to having one), in EXTREAME DEBT..already filed for bankruptcy, in financial trouble with bad checks ALL BECAUSE OF HIS PAST...2 DUIs, a bankruptcy, 2 car accidents and 1000s of dollars spent on pills...
The best indicator of future behavior is past behavior. The guy is 35 years old and still only works a part-time job? How can he provide for a family? Why would you want to have a family with someone like that? You deserve better.
IF this guy were to get a decent job, stay clean and sober and working a strong program of recovery for a minimum of one year, you might have a decent reason to consider trying again. As things are now, he hasn't changed much at all.