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Old 09-12-2012, 08:50 AM
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Originally Posted by 6901 View Post
I just need to make it through this weekend and then really start taking care of myself. How do you let go of someone you love so much with the thought of losing them forever? I've done it once before with her under easier circumstances...this time is 10 times harder.
Well, it may be easier to look at it as not letting her go, but letting go of your idea of a relationship with her right now. She doesn't have it to give. She may later on...who knows. But right now, for today, she does not.

Letting go is painful, I agree. So take it one day at a time, and have faith that she will find her own way. Say a prayer for her. Tell her you love her. And then get on with your own life.
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