I'm feeling so relieved tonight. I told my (now) XABF that I was done and wanted him to move out. It went a lot more smoothly than I imagined...some resistance but he eventually said he understood and would start making plans to move out. Wow, huge sense of relief. I am a little scared, but also excited that I am making decisions and following through with them. So now, I am cuddling in bed with my young son, reading Codependent No More while he watches cartoons. Ahhhhhhh.... Thanks everyone for your kind words and support. I will continue to post here, but wanted everyone to hear the progress that I've made tonight! :-)
Karin