Originally Posted by
Titanic 
A boundary = Our relationship's start date is being determined on a One Day at a Time basis.
Thanks Titanic...This means that our relationship doesn't START until I say it does?
So last night was very interesting. Went home, purchased Codependent No More on my Kindle, argued with ABF, then attended Alanon and afterwards read for about an hour.
My BF finally realized that I need to do what I need to do. To be honest, I am kind of over the relationship. Last night after Alanon he begged me to go to counseling together (He has always been opposed to counseling in the past). But I really think it is his last ditch effort to keep us together.
I'm feeling so disconnected from him right now. I just want him to leave so that I can focus on what I need to focus on (me!).
Now it just comes down to communicating this to him. I know he will try do anything to make me change my mind...you know how those As are.
Karin