Thank you, Karin, for sharing honey! Sounds like you handled and mentally processed that call well. My AH recently said, for the first time, that he would go to counseling. I had a hard time telling him I still want a divorce but, I love ME more. No one cares about or has control over my happiness but me. It was hard to be selfish!! Also, to realize my leaving him still won't make him not go into recovery, if he really didn't want recovery in the first place. To be legally bound to these people is insanity, glad I know now at such a young age. There are so many fish in the sea!! (no pun intended)
Marie1960, wow, LET GO OR BE DRAGGED! That is so powerful to me right now. Haven't heard it before, thank you a million times!