Hi 421, welcome. Sorry for what brings you here. I love your fine acronym. I told myself I was fine too, supermom, I denied/repressed my needs and soldiered on. As someone wrote to me in my first days on Sr, no matter how strong we are, no matter how much we think we can take, our babies absorb it all right through their skin.
Keep reading and posting. You will be amazed at how your mindset can change.